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How does online relationships work ?

Nowadays some people don’t have time for themselves , they are being busy spending there whole time for work , no time for there love life., or getting tired with the girls around them and looking for something new. That’s why we have internet , technologies   ,right?  as you go online you can see a lot of dating site like craiglist, tagged, dateinasia, friendfinder, and a lot more, you can see thousand of single men and women looking for a serious relationship. But still a lot of people are wondering does really online relationship works? Maybe some other single people works for them some are not, Me personally i  don’t have an experience dating online  but, I know some couples who are happily married now been together for 20 years and yes they meet each other online. They started to chat and exchanging emails, get to know each other until they meet each other in person . I searched online about online relationship stories and you can see hundred of stories online , you will see in there stories  how happy they are that they found their true love , try to search and read there story and how happy they are.

So  yes ,I believe  internet internet relationships can work out. I believe that you can really fall in love with someone through internet  You can fall in love with words, and you realize you are falling for someone beyond their physical looks. How does it work? Well you need to go online go to  a dating sites create a profile and put the best word that you will have, and start talking to people. I know that long distance relationship is very hard you are not quite sure if they are honest to you but that depends of the person.You need to get to know the person first before you go from there. Having an online relationship is not that easy you need to work for it and have patience in front of your computer  and talk to that especial someone. Attempting to get a relationship over the internet or miles away? It can be very gratifying, but it can also be quite a challenge. Its really good that you are talking to that especial someone

cause you will really get to know each other, talking to him/her will give you an idea what kind of person he/she really is. You will learn to love each other little by little. Make him feel as though he is a part of your life, via email, instant messaging , Skype or over the phone.Webcam will help too for your online relationship, its good to see each other while you are chatting, in that way you will really have a strong relationship.  Make plans to see each other. Making plans is important for two reasons: time together and commitment. It gives you a chance to be a couple face to face and spend time together. By making plans to visit, you are making a further commitment in your relationship. Be sure to remember however, that despite how close you might be over the Internet or phone, things will be a little awkward when you first meet in person. However, your partner is just as nervous as you.But trust me you you will love each other more when you see each other in person.

“Make a Long Term Relationship Work”

OK so i guess all of us wants to have a Long Term Relationship (LTR) , and we want to have the best relationship because we don’t want to be alone when we get old, we need someone to take care of us and take care of .Throughout our lives, we find ourselves asking the same questions time and again: “How do I make my relationship work?” BUT  what is the point of (LTR) Long term relationship?  This is a relationship between a guy and a girl that is based around strong mutual attraction on the physical, mental, and possibly even spiritual levels.It involves the concept of “love” and the desire to be with someone you care very highly about for a long time – possibly for the whole of your lives.</p>

As we spend large portions of our day over an extended period of time with the same person, we begin to see our lives settled almost subconsciously into a routine.On the one hand, the usefulness of routines is well recognized. Routines keep us on track, keep us grounded.So how will  makes the best relationship works? All of us know that 80% of marriages end in divorce even the best relationships in the world.

How make our relationship works?First you need to find someone you really love ,choose the right person , feel that she/he is the one forever in the rest of your lives.

Compromise, Relationships are about not only taking, but also giving. If you find yourself not giving very much, or feeling resentful of how much you give and how little you receive back, you may be in an unequal relationship where one side is taking more than they are giving.

Communication,Relationships live and die not by the sword, but by the amount of discussion. If two people can’t find a way to openly and honestly communicate their needs and feelings to one another, the relationship doesn’t stand much of a chance long-term. Couples must find a way to communicate regularly, openly, and directly. Choose your battles carefully,Prepare yourself for this challenge by choosing what arguments you want to turn into a full blown battle.After marriage or when two people move in together, couples tend to discover pretty much the same thing no matter who they are – that they are two different people and living together is harder than anyone ever told them. Love conquers a lot of things, but it is no match for living day-in and day-out with another human being (especially if you’ve spent years on your own).

Don’t hide your needs,Sometimes when we enter into a long-term relationship, we put ourselves second, behind the other person’s needs and desires. We might give up working to have a child, or agree to move to another city to help support our significant other’s career. And that’s fine, but you need to be realistic first with yourself about whether such things really matter to you or not. If they do, you need to find a way to communicate such needs with your partner, and compromise where possible.

Don’t underestimate the importance of  trust  and honesty, Different people have different areas of concern, but almost everyone values trust and honesty from their partner above all. Why? Because your partner is the one person you want to be able to depend upon in the long-term, without question or doubt.

Trust is really important in one relationship if you have trust in one another your relationship will gonna work long for sure , partners need trust to one another, Respect is also one of the important in one relationship , you need to be able to respect one another , respect what she want or he wants, we need to respect the thing that we both do.Laugh you also need this to a relationship laugh is so powerful it binds people together and increases happiness and intimacy.

If  you really want your long term relationship works you need to work on it and for sure you will have it you will save your marriage or your relationship with someone you love. Give importance on your relationship you should have time even you are that busy. This relationship must be kept new, fresh and fun at all times.