How does online relationships work ?

Nowadays some people don’t have time for themselves , they are being busy spending there whole time for work , no time for there love life., or getting tired with the girls around them and looking for something new. That’s why we have internet , technologies   ,right?  as you go online you can see a lot of dating site like craiglist, tagged, dateinasia, friendfinder, and a lot more, you can see thousand of single men and women looking for a serious relationship. But still a lot of people are wondering does really online relationship works? Maybe some other single people works for them some are not, Me personally i  don’t have an experience dating online  but, I know some couples who are happily married now been together for 20 years and yes they meet each other online. They started to chat and exchanging emails, get to know each other until they meet each other in person . I searched online about online relationship stories and you can see hundred of stories online , you will see in there stories  how happy they are that they found their true love , try to search and read there story and how happy they are.

So  yes ,I believe  internet internet relationships can work out. I believe that you can really fall in love with someone through internet  You can fall in love with words, and you realize you are falling for someone beyond their physical looks. How does it work? Well you need to go online go to  a dating sites create a profile and put the best word that you will have, and start talking to people. I know that long distance relationship is very hard you are not quite sure if they are honest to you but that depends of the person.You need to get to know the person first before you go from there. Having an online relationship is not that easy you need to work for it and have patience in front of your computer  and talk to that especial someone. Attempting to get a relationship over the internet or miles away? It can be very gratifying, but it can also be quite a challenge. Its really good that you are talking to that especial someone

cause you will really get to know each other, talking to him/her will give you an idea what kind of person he/she really is. You will learn to love each other little by little. Make him feel as though he is a part of your life, via email, instant messaging , Skype or over the phone.Webcam will help too for your online relationship, its good to see each other while you are chatting, in that way you will really have a strong relationship.  Make plans to see each other. Making plans is important for two reasons: time together and commitment. It gives you a chance to be a couple face to face and spend time together. By making plans to visit, you are making a further commitment in your relationship. Be sure to remember however, that despite how close you might be over the Internet or phone, things will be a little awkward when you first meet in person. However, your partner is just as nervous as you.But trust me you you will love each other more when you see each other in person.

How Arousal Overrides Disgust During Sex: Study

Sex may be one of life’s great pleasures, but it also involves a lot that normally might gross people out — sweat, bodily fluids and body odor, for starters.

A small Dutch study, released Wednesday, set out to identify the psychology that leads women to willingly, and even enthusiastically, engage in sexual activities despite the ick factor. The results, published online in the journal plos one , indicate that arousal overrides feelings of disgust and facilitates a woman’s desire to do something that a woman who is not aroused might find flat-out repulsive.

“Women [who] were sexually aroused were more willing to touch and do initially disgusting tasks,” study co-author Charmaine Borg, a researcher in the department of clinical psychology and experimental psychopathology at the University of Groningen in The Netherlands, told The Huffington Post.

Borg and her colleagues separated 90 female university students into three equal groups: one watched “female friendly erotica;” one watched a video of extreme sports meant to get them excited, but in a non-sexual way; and one watched a video of a train, meant to elicit a neutral response.

The women were then given 16 tasks, most of them unappealing. They were asked to take a sip from a cup of juice that had a large (fake) insect in it, to wipe their hands with a used tissue and to take a bite from a cookie that was sitting next to a living worm. The women were also asked to perform several sex-related tasks, like lubricating a vibrator.

Women in the “aroused group” said they found both the unpleasant tasks and the sex-related tasks less disgusting than women in the other groups. They also completed the highest percentage of the activities, suggesting that sexual arousal not only decreases feelings of disgust, but directly affects what women are willing to do, the study shows.

Daniel R. Kelly, an associate professor of philosophy at Purdue University and author of the book “Yuck! The Nature and Moral Significance of Disgust” who was not involved in the study, explained that disgust is an “extension of our immune system” that helps prevent people from getting infected by making them wary of things, like bodily fluids, that potentially carry disease or make people vulnerable.

“Disgust is an emotion,” he explained. “What it’s there for, primarily, is to protect us against eating things that might poison us, or coming into close physical proximity to things that might carry infections. That’s its mission.”

David Buss, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas Austin and author of “Why Women Have Sex,” called disgust a “huge issue for women.”

“Women show far more disgust and especially sexual disgust, than men,” he said.

Buss concurred with Kelly that the findings are evidence of what “is very likely an evolved psychological defense.”

“It helps to protect women from having sex with the wrong men, such as men who might communicate diseases, men who show signs of a high ‘parasite load,’ men who have poor hygiene and so on,” he said.

What is interesting about the new Dutch paper, the two experts agreed, is that it suggests the mission to avoid the potentially “dangerous” parts of sex takes a backseat when women are aroused. “Sexual arousal can override disgust,” Buss said.

That not only suggests a potential reason why a woman might engage in behaviors that she wouldn’t if she weren’t turned on, it might also provide insights into how low-sexual arousal feeds sexual dysfunctions in women, the study’s authors argue.

“These findings indicate that lack of sexual arousal may interfere with functional sex, as it may prevent the reduction of disgust and disgust-related avoidance tendencies,” Borg explained, saying she hopes the findings prompt further research in this area.

“Make a Long Term Relationship Work”

OK so i guess all of us wants to have a Long Term Relationship (LTR) , and we want to have the best relationship because we don’t want to be alone when we get old, we need someone to take care of us and take care of .Throughout our lives, we find ourselves asking the same questions time and again: “How do I make my relationship work?” BUT  what is the point of (LTR) Long term relationship?  This is a relationship between a guy and a girl that is based around strong mutual attraction on the physical, mental, and possibly even spiritual levels.It involves the concept of “love” and the desire to be with someone you care very highly about for a long time – possibly for the whole of your lives.</p>

As we spend large portions of our day over an extended period of time with the same person, we begin to see our lives settled almost subconsciously into a routine.On the one hand, the usefulness of routines is well recognized. Routines keep us on track, keep us grounded.So how will  makes the best relationship works? All of us know that 80% of marriages end in divorce even the best relationships in the world.

How make our relationship works?First you need to find someone you really love ,choose the right person , feel that she/he is the one forever in the rest of your lives.

Compromise, Relationships are about not only taking, but also giving. If you find yourself not giving very much, or feeling resentful of how much you give and how little you receive back, you may be in an unequal relationship where one side is taking more than they are giving.

Communication,Relationships live and die not by the sword, but by the amount of discussion. If two people can’t find a way to openly and honestly communicate their needs and feelings to one another, the relationship doesn’t stand much of a chance long-term. Couples must find a way to communicate regularly, openly, and directly. Choose your battles carefully,Prepare yourself for this challenge by choosing what arguments you want to turn into a full blown battle.After marriage or when two people move in together, couples tend to discover pretty much the same thing no matter who they are – that they are two different people and living together is harder than anyone ever told them. Love conquers a lot of things, but it is no match for living day-in and day-out with another human being (especially if you’ve spent years on your own).

Don’t hide your needs,Sometimes when we enter into a long-term relationship, we put ourselves second, behind the other person’s needs and desires. We might give up working to have a child, or agree to move to another city to help support our significant other’s career. And that’s fine, but you need to be realistic first with yourself about whether such things really matter to you or not. If they do, you need to find a way to communicate such needs with your partner, and compromise where possible.

Don’t underestimate the importance of  trust  and honesty, Different people have different areas of concern, but almost everyone values trust and honesty from their partner above all. Why? Because your partner is the one person you want to be able to depend upon in the long-term, without question or doubt.

Trust is really important in one relationship if you have trust in one another your relationship will gonna work long for sure , partners need trust to one another, Respect is also one of the important in one relationship , you need to be able to respect one another , respect what she want or he wants, we need to respect the thing that we both do.Laugh you also need this to a relationship laugh is so powerful it binds people together and increases happiness and intimacy.

If  you really want your long term relationship works you need to work on it and for sure you will have it you will save your marriage or your relationship with someone you love. Give importance on your relationship you should have time even you are that busy. This relationship must be kept new, fresh and fun at all times.

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“How to handle yourself when drunk”

                                           

 

 

Do you ever find it hard to control yourself when your drunk? So every weekend me and my friends going out together to party after work, cause we wanted to have fun after our long long working days  and not thinking about a stressful work . So sometimes we go barhopping and drink different kind of alcohols before to go to our favorite disco place. I just can’t stop drinking and have fun and think about nothing.  I really get drunk and its really weird because i do a lot of weird stuff  when i’m drunk . Every time I got drunk i can’t control myself I don’t even know what happened on that time. They said i’m so noisy and talk a lot of weird stuff , pulling my friends shirt when talking to them. I’m throwing things on the ground if i don’t like it and they said its really annoying, i get really crazy. It’s not really good to my image doing those things and its really embarrassing , so i learned to control myself .

I learned to handle myself now when i’m drunk. SO this are my strategies to handle myself when i get drunk, You should know your limits you should stop if you feel tipsy drink water until you feel alright then you can continue drinking again.Don’t drink on an empty stomach. You are more likely to get sick and less likely to be able to control yourself when you do drink on an empty stomach. Accept a drink only when you really want one. At a party if someone is trying to force another drink on you, ask for ice or drink a non-alcoholic  beverage. Conversation will help to , start a conversation to a friend a really good and smart conversation it will help you to forget you to drink and just think what will you answer. So this are the thing that i do to handle myself to get drunk,  It’s bothering me at first  when i control myself drinking but at least i learned to handle myself  now and it will have  a good image.

“How to get rid of Dandruff”

Dandruff  is not only  itchy and irritating but embarrassing, disgusting and   discomforting as well.You constantly look around for instances to scratch your head   when nobody around you is looking. Well, sometimes doing just that gives you a moment of achievement , however, most of the other times, it`s really annoying.Its a common problem for all of us it causes are varied and affect both men and women. Some of dandruff causes are also genetic factors, hormones, climate, stress, mood, allergy and diet as far as i know.

All of us wants to get rid of  dandruff, we want to be comfortable and confidence all the time, so how do we really get rid of dandruff ? What do we need to do to get rid of  it? If we have dandruff issues we need to learn how to get rid of it.

In order to get rid of dandruff the best thing is to start using an appropriate shampoo. At the pharmacy, you can find a shampoo which suits different types of hair and dandruff, and for oily and dry scalp, and use anti-dandruff shampoo you need to find the shampoo that suits you. Watch your styling products ,do you use a hair wax or spray? You may not realize it but these  products can very well be the reason why you get dandruff.Some products contain ingredients which irritate your scalp,make sure that you remove them completely at the end of the day.

Eat balance diet,The best way to get rid of dandruff fast is to start from the inside. It has always been considered that your daily diet affects the way you look on the outside. Eating healthy foods will help you have beautiful and young looking skin. In the case of dandruff, foods rich in zinc, omega-3 and B vitamins help a great deal. Excellent sources of these nutrients are fruits and vegetables, red meat, fish, eggs, whole grains, nuts and dairy products. In addition, it is recommended to keep yourself hydrated. Drink plenty of water to help you avoid getting dry skin.